Wife moved out to be with her Tour Guide Lover

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I am acting from a place of fear and worry about the future. Plus I am completely overwhelmed right now.

I have so much to do and take care of without dealing with this divorce and affair, that I am spiraling down a hole...

I am trying , but I can see how weak I am at his point.

This is why I have asked to sit by myself with the collaborative coach next week!

Another issue is my sessions with my IC. I know she is trying to get me to disconnect and let my STBXW go.

She spent half of yesterday telling me my STBX is a lier.and that all,she does is lie. That from the day I met her she has lied,,that practically her entire life is a lie.she is even lying to OM when she's been around me and not told him. Sometimes the way she says it is very frustrating it actually makes me defend the wife.

Then she says how do you know her sister is not lying..

How does she know that ten years ago I was being lied to?

Ugh
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