Help Newbie with H going thru midlife crisis

[MrBond]

You will be amazed at how quickly he will either start treating much nicer or increase his attacks on you like a child who can't get what they want. "Wah wah, it's your fault I'm like this" and other ridiculous claims.

[scooby]

Mr bond

Thanks for the advice. He will monster up as he does not like giving up control. Which way did your w go?

[MrBond]

Like all people with MLC, the mood swings would go from one extreme to the next. When I started doing what I suggested you do, she became much nicer. Respect is something that they forget very easily.

[scooby]

Mr bond

How is your w these days? Is she done with monster?

[MrBond]

Every now and then it comes out. That's when I continue to do what I suggested to you. She doesn't admit it, but I know it makes her stop and think when I call her out on it.

[scooby]

Mr bond

Are you at reconncilation yet?

[scooby]

Mr bond

Are you at reconncilation yet?

[scooby]

I feel like crap today. Very emotional today. Good thing I have therapy today...ugh

[job]

Feel your emotions, allow them to wash over you and then release them.

[scooby]

Today I am scared it isn't mlc it is just him. Last month he will do small talk, but no physical contact, not even eye contact. All he says is that he is going to divorce me. He won't move out either. His counselor thinks he is mentally unstable. Ugh!!!;