Thanks H456. It's good to hear I'm not the only one thinking those thoughts. I've been getting out and playing sport and going to a couple of social events. I've managed to lose the baby weight and more (Don't think my H has noticed though- LOL). With the nanny gone it's going to be more difficult to do these things but I agree with you how important they are. They make me feel so good. I feel like the real me is back : )