I can really relate to your story with H. We have had several "talks" and in all of them, H continues to say he thinks we should go separate ways, he hasn't been happy and that he doesn't see us being happy together. Then he throws in that he is confused and not sure what to do or if he will regret this. I, also, refuse to initiate something I don't want and wait on him to do legwork. He has done nothing in 8 months. So, I continue to ride on the crazy train. I figure either he will do something, or I will get so fed up that I will take the steps to D. But for now, I continue to ride it out

Hang in there, it sounds like you are doing all the right things to cope. We are here for you.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-