Talked to OM. He started off blaming my W for starting the relationship. I told him to get to the point and ask his question. He asked if I had been sleeping with my W over the past couple of months. I told him its none of his business. He asked if she told him who's kid it was. I told him that she told me its his kid and I believe her. He then kept going on about whether I had been sleeping with her during that time. I kept replying that its none of his business.

He got really frustrated about that and doesn't understand why I won't tell him to make sure it's his kid. I said I'm not going into it and that was it.

He is now telling my W that he knows she was sleeping with both of us. And she's trying to put the kid on him. He's accusing me of saying the kid is mine, which I never said. He's nuts. My W believes me and doesn't believe him.

W has really messed things up for herself and our family. There's part of me that wants to convince her to give me full custody of the kids if she's going to continue to put herself in these situations.


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