my wife left, but still lives with me #3/continued

[tough spot]

Well I picked up my divorce summons/complaint/papers this morning at my wife's lawyer. What a tough job that would be. I was pleasant but I bet they have to deal with some pretty upset people upon occasion!

The past two days I have sensed, basically it feels like waves of hate from my wife. I have no idea why she is so angry. I haven't been talking R with her, went and picked up my papers as she requested, as far as I know I have done absolutely nothing to her. It feels like she just hates the fact that I am not gone yet.

Her and her lawyer sure are shooting for the moon based on the paperwork from today. Wants alimony, primary custody, child support, me to help pay for her lawyer, maintain insurance on the kids, and an equitable division of our stuff.

Doesn't she remember going over our bleak looking finances 1.5 months ago and setting up a budget? We have a lot of debt....not sure where she thinks all this money is going to magically appear from.

I might ask her tonight, simply, 'why are you so angry with me' and see where that goes. Not sure.