One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

So, I just signed up for coaching. I am in need of coaching on how to move forward at this point. I have my first session this saturday.

The issue I am dealing with has to do with her lack of handlig her finances and and my dbing. She has messed her finances up so bad she is waiting for my weekly support check in order to get food for her and the kids. Her solution was for me to move in as a roomate. I told her no, unless we were working on the marriage. She got angry at this. So now I have just stopped communication with her. What do I do if she can't afford food even? I figure I will offer to have the kids come over to eat, but not offer same to her. I think I have to do this as she still looks to me to bail her out and if I do I would not be doing a 180 but rather what I always did.

So, I am hoping the coach will help me put a plan together and help with dealing with some of this.