I'm sorry hope. I know detachment is hard. There are plenty of days I can't let go either. I'll sit around and imagine things working out and how it would happen. But it doesn't help and doesn't make us any more attractive to come back to anyways. More than anything, its just an emotional high that you have to come back down from each time. The hurt will come and go each time and get easier to manage. You can 'get over' it, you just have to figure out how to live past it.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10