Thanks Bunches and Upwards. Rationally, I know that I'll be ok without my H. I can take care of my D7 and my house and will be fine financially. None of that changes the fact that I want things to be different though. I think this whole I'm not "in love" thing is BS. No, things are not like they were 14 years ago when I was 18 and he was 21 and we didn't have responsibilities, but that's normal. I think the justification of "people just grow apart" that people tell themselves (and others) is just that, justification for quitting instead of doing the work.
To answer your question, I think that means I'm not doing very well with detachment.
