Been a while since my last update, only because there was not much to update:). Up until thanksgiving last year.
I figure it was time to do something different. We were in limbo for 3 years and so I initiated the separation.
It was a long process, I had to figure out how we'd pull it off. There was a lot of back and forth to sell the house or we nest custody at the end we both agreed to refi and she bought me out. I would've love to keep the house but I couldn't afford it, actually I'm not sure she can afford either but she said she can.
The refi went through and we signed papers two weeks ago, and I moved out last weekend. I drafted a separation agreement that includes division of monthly bills (credit cards relating to kids expenses, she will take care of house related bills it's her house now) and 50/50 schedule with the kids. She agreed and we both signed and notarized the agreement.
Continuing.....
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
