Just hanging in and trying to keep up my boundaries. We did not make any decisions about changes to the schedule. H is going out of town with S5 and S3 for a week starting Friday, so I figured I would wait until they get back to discuss.
I am trying to keep all conversations limited to kids/business. I have been doing well. H is definitely trying to push it a bit. I wrote him about a school conference for S5 last night. He emailed back about that and asked how the kids were doing. I responded about the kids. He then wrote back and got into stuff about his job, long hours etc. I did not respond. This morning he did the same thing.
Um...I don't want to talk about anything except the kids/finances. Also, of all the things in the world you could discuss, you choose to talk about work...where OW also works...Yeah, I really have no interest in knowing that you have been working long hours because then I start to wonder if OW was there.
Things have been going pretty well considering. I stayed up late last night coloring pictures to put in S5 and S3's luggage. S5 made me pictures to open each day while I was on my business trip so I wanted to do the same for the boys. H's birthday is this weekend. I packed a gift for the kids to give H.
H come to family day on Sunday with a gift card for me to get a spa while the boys were on vacation with it. It was a nice gesture.
Starting to think that I just may be okay even if we don't R. It helps that I have a bunch of fun stuff planned next week to take my mind off the big boys being gone.
