It does make sense to have some resources handy though. We're all here reading DB, DR, 5LL, etc to work on ourselves but when the WAS/MLCer starts to come round we're supposed to hide the books. I've found books extremely helpful for me so I'd like to think there's something we can direct our spouses to, even if it's just a 'when the time is right' thing.
Yeh he seems really eager to understand his behaviour & why he feels how he does etc. A lot of his behaviors and difficulties with emotion are very common in early recovery and he's very interested in why/when/hows of it all - I dont want to bombard him but at the same time if he wants the info I would like to help point him in the right direction.
I read 5LL and was telling him a bit about it a few weeks ago & he asked me could he borrow it as it sounds really good, I've delayed as dont think he'd actually read it yet but i'm going to give it him when the time is right then its up to him if he wants to read or not
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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