In your OP you mentioned that she felt neglected, have you read the 5 Love Languages?
I have read the 5LLs. I can't remember what the exact terminology was, but hers is something like Quality Time and mine is Physical Touch/Affection. She's not interested in spending quality together right now, despite the great "date" we had this past weekend (at her suggestion...I think she suggested we go out as an opportunity to talk without the kids around, but we ended up having a great time together).
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
