Well no news from W. Mentioned the email to a friend. He came clean to say W told his W had already been hearing from my W 2-3 years ago that she didn't love me anymore...I am moving in the right direction.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14