Guess what? The email actually worked well! I went to the parent teacher conference and when I got home there was a message on my machine from my H! He said he was wondering if I had checked out the computers online yet and if I had picked one out... LOL...He's curious because I have been so busy! I am doing things differently and it is working...so I am going to quit beating myself up for that email! Right on! Now, I have to continue not calling him and keeping the contact through email to a very minimum. He is hundreds of miles away so a little contact to let him know we are doing well without him is probably ...no definitely good...this just proved it!
