I'm glad things are going well for you and your sons. Sometimes you don't notice how much tension was in the home until the mlcing spouse is out on their own.
Sounds like you and the boys are now making the home a more comfortable and enjoyable place to be, i.e., you are decorating it the way that you want and are comfortable w/it. I like that!
Keep up the good work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
