Yeah, I get that. The post before is just venting. A lot of the time now I pick up when something negative happens and I actually tell myself that I've brought this upon myself or if I'm hurting, I tell myself I've put my wife through more than I'm going through. I understand why I'm here, I just wish there was an easier way out and of course, I know it's not going to happen. It comes down to being frustrated at myself for creating this situation more than being frustrated at my wife for how she treats me.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014