1. I have been domineering and stifling to WAW all during our marriage 2. Everyone is telling WAW that she is so much happier now. 3. WAW belives we are incompatible 4. WAW wants the house in her name because she belives otherwise she will be lumbered with a 10000 euro tax bill. No I do not understand this one either. 5. Mediator suggested that we see a collegue of hers to help me accept the idea of a divorce. 6. When it was suggested that WAW might also need to attend WAW refused point blank claiming i was trying to reel her back in. 7. WAW raised claims of physical abuse to her and the kids: Not actually true 8. A lot of other stuff i cannot recall. But basically made to feel i am the only guilty party in all this. 9 WAW feels that i am holding a sword over head about the finances. 10 we both trust each other regarding the safety and upbrining of the kids. 11. Somehow I was the one preventing my WAW from finding a job
Next meeting to detail all the finances.
So basically I am torn up again inside and being railroaded into a divorce. Any suggestion of getting help to accept and be able to communicate is refused.
