She lied about breaking up with OM before. How will you know if she really has or not?
I'm pretty sure she did because when she broke up with him Monday night and told him that she told me about the pregnancy a couple of weeks ago he went crazy on her calling her names, accusing her of sleeping with me during the time, and wanting a paternity test. Apparently he's going to call me to talk to me about it... So yeah I guess I believe her. Also he's going to be sending me pictures of them together (obviously I'll delete right away). Of course this is all what she tells me. If true OM seems like a crazy control freak that's trying to ruin any chance of her getting back with me and trying to get back at her. She says she feels that he won't harm her, but she doesn't know for sure.
I've made some suggestions to her on things she should do. I told her it's up to her but she should move in with her mom for the time being. She needs to surround herself with some good influences, which she has been doing more lately. She needs to go no contact with OM and his family. I'm being protective of her and that's something I didn't do very well or much before, and she mentioned in our talk tonight that she really liked it.
I told her I forgive her and I love her and I want her back. I told her I'll help her now as much as possible without any expectation of us getting back together. I just want her to be safe and in a good spot in her life. She doesn't understand how I could still love her. She says this must be what unconditional love is like.
She may be using me and manipulating me, I don't know. I don't care. I'll love her as much as I can for as long as I can. I'm prepared to get divorced. I'm prepared to not see the kids half the time or so. I'm prepared to lose money. I'm prepared for the worst and can handle it.
