Did I say something wrong? I think I've unleashed a dragon. H sent me an email asking what happened with the separation agreement. He also said we will always be friends and I can always lean on him for anything I need done even money. Funny we were at a business meeting together a couple of hours prior to that and he was talking about expansion and the future of the company with everyone. Then bang I get an email.

I responded saying this is a 20 year relationship that can't be severed Ina week. I said you are free to move forward any way you see fit but I me to make sure we do this right. I don't think it's something that can be decided on email but I am open to talking about it when you get home. I will make a list of items to discuss. I ended it by saying that although we will always cop aren't together and I will do everything in my power to give my kids the best life. However I am so hurt and angry right now that I don't think we can be friends. BOMB went off. He lost it. Came home and screamed and cursed at me. Then sent me an email as I was standing on top of his head obviously to document the case for court that he has changed his mind about the proposed agreement. He would think about it and get back to me.

Was what I said that bad or a real dose of reality? He said I was just trying to be nice. I don't want to be your friend. You have no friends and aren't capable of friendship. Wow I can't believe I loved that!!!!!!


M12
Kids 2
ILYBINILWY 08/05
Reconciled 05/06
S07/12
Moved back 03/13
Separated Again 06/24/13
Back Again (his choice) 02/14
Leaving again 03/23/14
DIVORCED 02/15