I agree with Dangy 100% here....that V Day phone call IS NOT going to get you anything but more heartache. Right now, your H is NOT receptive to your pursuit, professions of love or anything else and EACH attempt you make to convince him he SHOULD love you will only firm up his resolve to keep running FROM YOU. It's going to take a whole lot more than a few scattered AA meetings, a self serving love letter or a handful of conseling sessions to get him to trust you again.
DO all the things you plan on doing and leave HIM out of it because if you're ONLY doing them in the hopes of getting him back, believe ME he knows it and he won't believe it's going to help...YOUR getting it together and HIM seeing you get yourself together...IS what will make him begin to BELIEVE that you can be healthy. T2
