Ugh... Had a conversation with my FIL this evening that I almost would rather not have had. He asked me over because he wanted to let me know that he knew what was up (obviously since W says she's moving in there), and that he and MIL will be there for the kids. I'm sort of upset they're letting W move in, but kept it to myself. He also let me know that he and MIL love me and hope we can work things out, although he doesn't think that's going to happen. I told him I loved them too, loved their daughter, and pretty much left it at that. I did ask if he knew when she was planning on moving in and he said he had no idea.

W is going to a concert Saturday with a girlfriend, so I'm having the kids stay at the in-laws so I can get some GAL in myself.

H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14