Help Newbie with H going thru midlife crisis

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My xh lived home for 4 months post bomb

It was extremely painful and difficult to live with him
he would leave the room if I walked in
he would not talk
then
we became friendlier especially after he left the house
he visited a lot
I learned to let go
to validate his thoughts and feelings
to NOT ask for anything and be grateful if he did help in some way

this went on for 2 years till he finally filed--I asked him to file
after D I began to let go more

My XH was never the same as before MLC..I have not spoke to him for many years now
but from what I hear..He is living a strange existence with a crazy wife OW
7 years later..the time goes by fast!I wi

I wound up meeting another man unexpectedly..still with him 5 years later

But for the 2 years post bomb we were friendly..I was standing
then it just seemed time to move on
you will know

peace