He thanks for taking time to check in on me. One thing to mention my STANZA did say it bothered her if I date. So .really she just want to stay married because she makes a lot less than I do and has much more expensive tastes. So when we split and our incomes change she can't afford her stuff anymore and its all stuff I can live without. That's really how I see this. She didn't mention anything about wanting to stay M because of anything but money. And the kicker is she wouldn't even care if I wanted to date. I'm not interested in people that would want to date a married man with an "arrangement" if I'm going to one day be with someone else as a partner I will have no hope of that as a "married" man in the way my W is proposing here. Yuck
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14