Agreed all this advice is easier said than done,... I find the advice makes me too hopeful.. expectations too high..
almost magic.. if I get all the parts of the spell right then the magic will work..
The arriving at their ex home and acting like it is still home.. I hate that.. lulls me into a sense of security. Seems like life as it was before. I was acting as if ...and my husband called me on it said you are acting as if nothing has happened.. I am sure there is advice somewhere about not letting the WAS think you are a sure thing always available. I have not been able to do that. ? He knows me..the core of me.. Maybe one day.. but not yet...
