Pursuing normally pushes them away. Have you read the Sandi's Rules in the newbie area? There's also so much good information in the homework Cadet posted early in your thread. Detach, GAL, focus on YOU, let him go on this journey alone, you can't fix it. Educate yourself, eat, breathe, sleep, stay positive.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
