This is an example: look at the small things you think everyday...you wake up and you think about a croissant and you ended getting it right? Your circunstances are a product of how you see your reality now!! You are thinking about D, its divorce gonna be there? Yes as long as you think about D, think about it and put all your energy in not thinking about D, but in thinking in what you want to be happy!!
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.