He still denied everything and said I was delusional.
WAS's hate getting outed on being adulterers. His reaction was predictable.
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Here is the thing. I don't feel anything. Is that good or bad? Am I detached or is it some sort of defense mechanism?
Not really detachment. Detachment doesn't mean you don't feel anything, it just means you don't let their roller coaster of emotions affect your own PMA. Instead of "detachment" it should be called "loving detachment" because that describes it a little better. People think detachment is shutting down on them but that's not it at all. It's hard to say what you're experiencing, you might just be temporarily numb or it may be some kind of coping mechanism. Like most of your feelings you shouldn't try to define it as good or bad, it just "is".
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I am going to finally see an L so I have a better understanding of what is going to happen.
Great! This is for you, you don't have to tell H. In fact it's probably a good idea not to as it will likely just make him angry.
