When I began this journey over a year ago all the vets were pounding in my head the need to "lovingly detach".
About this time last year my X informed me that she would be traveling to S. Fran with her boy toy over the memorial day weekend and that I would need to watch D4............I was broken, the tears flowed and I found myself sinking even deeper in depression.
BOY HAVE TIMES CHANGED
Im writing this today because I just received almost the same exact email today (which brought back the memories)- She is going somewhere, with perhaps someone, again over memorial and I DONT CARE......because Ill be doing something super cool with D4 while also planning my own trip to France later this year!
The principles in DB work on so many different levels BUT, #1- YOU need to work on YOU before you have any hope at long term success.
Tomorrow will only be better
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
