And then there's the question of whether it can be used to break W's denial of A, and whether that changes their figuring.
Well she would probably quit denying it, but if other sitches are any indication then she'll be angry that you outed her, and of course she'll blame you for driving her into someone else's arms. I know it makes no sense, but it's standard behavior for WAS's involved in adultery.
Originally Posted By: zew
Meanwhile, W told a friend yesterday that "If he had come to me like this a year ago, we wouldn't be in this mess."
That is so straight out of the WAS guidebook. We all get the "too little too late" and "why didn't you do this before I was done?" comments at some point.
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Makes me think I might be on the right track now, but she's still just too angry to accept anything I do. Maybe I'm reading more into that than I should.
No I'd say that's pretty accurate. Like 25 says, "consistent actions + time = change your S can believe in". So you're doing the right things, but you have to keep doing them consistently for a long period of time. Really the goal is to keep doing them until they are part of you, it becomes the new you.
