You are working in so many different aspects of you that I feel the need to remind you of one very important tool......
The word "NO"
You are clearly "doing what works", and its having its desired effect, but remember - YOU MUST BE YOU If there is something you dont want to do just say "no".
I found myself early on trying to do so much that I did everything- trying to win her love.
But I lost her respect. Now that im soooooo much stronger I am able to use "No"- and our conversations have become much better after I grew my backbone.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
If there is something you dont want to do just say "no".
