Originally Posted By: unbidden
Get A Life, it means get hobbies, go out and meet people, exercise etc. This will take your mind of your sitch, show you there is a life outside of the hell you're in and makes you a more interesting person to your S.
boy am I dumb...

She used to say that I needed more hobbies than her..

Thing is we would workout together, run together, fish together etc...I do need to find stuff to keep me away, especially on the weekends when she moves home and he's not here. She will probably try to,see his friends in the city etc, but that will only occupy so much time...


W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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