I likely should have my L communicate to my W, or maybe I should do it myself, that I will pay her the same amount of support regardless. That may at least help to ease her mind on the financial side of things.
Scorp7, you're all over the board here. You told her you wouldn't discuss anything financial until you came to an agreement that provided equal time with the kids. Be consistent.
Parenting agreement first; financial settlement after. And leave the financial discussions to the lawyers.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
