Jenn - thanks for your input. I'm trying to leave the relationship between my D7 and my H to them, but it is very hard not to say something when I know she is being hurt. I know that my H isn't a bad guy and doesn't want to hurt her. He just doesn't seem to think things through very well. Not saying something is a 180 for me, but I am struggling with whether this is a good 180 or not.

So, H texted last night just to say good night and then started to send flirty messages again. I think it is a good thing, but find it very confusing. confused