Funny... just dawned on me that all of the aunts W will be going out to visit in Oregon are divorced. W's mom will be the only one there who went through marital strife of her own and decided to stick it out. W's mom actually cheated on her dad for quite some time, but they worked it out and have now been together for 30+ years. It has occurred to me to ask W at some point if she thinks her mom and dad would be better off today if they had gotten divorced...or if W thinks she and her sister/brothers would have been better off. I think her answer would be "no", but I guess it's a question that from the DB perspective I shouldn't even ask.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
