Yes, it is something I am doing for me. I had mentioned it in passing to him already, but didn't really ask about using his insurance...then after his remarks about taking me off his insurance after the d was final, I realized that I better pre-certify for the counseling and psychiatry to be sure I was even still on the insurance. I guess since he will be getting the bills it is ok to run it by him, but the bottom line is that I am going to go no matter what he says...because I need to go...so if he says NO...it is just going to be a fight...I really don't think he will say No...I think he may actually just say yeah, go..and I don't know if he will care that I asked or not...I already sent the email...I wish I would have waited now...because I am having mixed emotions about it too...but too late for that now...so, he will think whatever he thinks and say whatever he says..and either he'll respond well or the damage is done. He is pretty monetary, so he may be glad that I was responsible enough to ask him...we'll see. And the fact that I am signing up as separated may be a shocker to him, too. Don't know if that is good or bad...
