I guess I should add that the reason his walls are coming down is most likely because of DB and other similar programs. I'm sure he expected me to beg, plead, cry, be mad etc etc. Which is what I did initially....but then I stopped. At least around him, and although as stated earlier I'm not where I need to be I am at least better than where I was a month ago...and my house is starting to look much better (one of his big issues and I love it!)
I guess if you are new and reading this just be patient with yourself. You will have good and bad days, you will make mistakes. We all have, just keep the faith. And if you truly work on yourself you will be a happier person in the end, regardless of the outcome! Now if I can remember that daily!
J
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since