Hope - I hear you...its hard not to get sucked in.
And even harder when H disappoints the kids.
Not that I'm coming from any experience, but when it come to my daughters, I speak up. It's one thing for him to disappoint me but the kids are already so messed up with whats going on.
I'd talk with him about it.
Jenn
M:41 H:38 D:6 D:3 M:11 yrs T:15 yrs Bomb: Feb 8/14 Seperated: Feb 12/14
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." Plato