How long we're you married? I am curious because when I first got divorced I really needed validation. Then, after a couple of years, I had a rekindled relationship that never really got defined. I was smitten though. I needed to know that I could feel again.

I was married for 19 years. The reality is that I have spent so much time and energy raising the kids, I haven't dated. I am getting there now,feeling good with myself. I wouldn't balk if a great guy came along and I have opened myself up.

Don't go after a band aid relationship. Get comfortable with you. You will also have a new way ofdealingwith your daughter. Those take time. Take it, to get it right.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory