Meeting for "THE TALK" tonight

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Good luck Mleigh on whatever you decide to do. I see so many different sich's here.
You said if the D happens you would have to sell the house? Is there a way you can buy his half out?
One of the reasons I moved away from my MLCer is that she threatened to take the kids if she moved out...that pretty much forced my hand. She is the main bread winner in our family and I cannot afford the family home without her income. I did not want to chance her moving our sons out of their home and leaving me with a payment I can't make.
My latest plan is to let a little more time pass, then move into a 2br apt. in my kids school district and set up split custody arrangements.
I believe whichever choice we make is the best choice with the information we have at that time, and we need to make peace with that...once again, Good Luck!