I think this is normal for MLC

It seems to take a long time for most to get through it

It is caused by unresolved childhood issues

For the first few years, it may be worth it to stand because it gives everyone time to adjust and heal
sometimes standing can create a cordial R between LBS and MLcer

We learn to detach, let go and heal ourselves

We learn to live and let Mlcer live as he chooses

Its a gamble but I don't think many LBS regret standing for a time

We will know when its time to stop and move on

WE will know if the MLCer seems to be taking a turn to come back and we will know when its time to file if they don't

It all takes time to figure out but for now there is not much you can do except take care of your self and watch the finances carefully

Know your rights just in case

peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow