What are some things I can do to not appear desperate or easy?
Learn to say "Hmmm, I'm not sure how I feel about that anymore. Let me think about it." And "I'm afraid it's not that simple anymore," and "Hmm, I don't think that works for me. Let's re-visit this later."
Also, let HIM tell you what reconciliation would look like, and what he is going to do to clean up his mess."
Your HEART needs to show him it is capable of forgiveness, but -- because of his betrayals -- your HEAD is going to be in charge for awhile.
