Starsky,

I have access to view phone records but I stopped snooping a long time ago. I feel if I had checked periodically then I would have caught this and not have another "Ah Ha" moment.

I also have access to his email and FB accounts. Emails dating back as far as 2012 if I looked.

I also downloaded a key logger.

I think I may have been way too easy in the beginning but I'm getting better at that. What are some things I can do to not appear desperate or easy?