Upwards - Moving Fowards, Tiny Positive Steps

[Breakdown]

Day 2 of NC complete - cant believe how much easier this is now i'm much more detached!

Congrats!

I miss him, but i'm not a complete wreck like I was a couple of weeks ago go me!!

I'm not sure that will go away for a long time. I've been D'd for nearly a year and I still miss my XW. I still want to reach out to her occasionally. Of course, I don't miss the drama, or the stress, or the lies....so I still come out ahead

Our house goes on the market this week too - big step but certainly needed for both me & H, regardless of what happens with our M/R we both need a fresh start

That is a big step. I think that's part of moving forward....planning for YOUR life. You can't live like "if H does this, I'll do this." You have to start moving forward for you. If he snaps out of it, then you adjust. Until then, focus on what you want.