Do I confront my wife about the account? She has asked me to take money out of our joint account several times since opening her own and still spends from our joint accounts, never her "own'. I looked into how it works and if we file, 1/2 of that money does belong to me but knowing how her MLC mind works, she will get angry AT ME if I confront her.
This is a tough one to answer. On one hand, I think you should confront her on the other, you may be pushing yourself and her to a quicker meeting with a judge. Does the secret account have a lot of money in it? If not, then I do not think it is worth it. I do believe though that she needs to stop raiding the joint account.
Quote:
Maybe she thinks I'm going to file and is doing this to protect herself? I can't imagine that she would think I would ever do such a thing but with MLC maybe I need to ask her? At the time I didn't think she needed to hear that I wasn't going to file as I'm the one trying to keep us together. Any thoughts?
I would not mention anything to her. Right now, you need to focus on YOU (GAL) and detachment.
Did you read the stuff that Cadet posted to you?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
