See my point was that you still have control issues and it shows. You have these "expectations" that you seem to have on things, even in a FREE forum.
Case in point...
"Also realize that today was a big important day for me and I was a wreck last night. Just give me that,"
That line alone is similar to your "well I did this, BUT SHE DID THIS!" mentality. A little humility would serve you well. Also, usually on the weekends there aren't many people posting.
As for your conversation with your W. You did a good job in terms of laying down your boundaries. One thing you should work on though is releasing your resentment towards your W. That is something that you haven't seemed to work out yet and it bubbles up alot.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
