It might be helpful for you to post a link to your prior threads, so people can get a background on your sitch. It helps when giving advice.
fyi, the Piecing forum doesn't get near the traffic that the Newcomers does, or even the Infidelity forum. I'll leave it up to you to post (or link) whatever you feel comfortable with, as it's your thread, but I'm not sure that Piecing would be the most appropriate place for you right now considering your husband's recent behavior.
