I did everything by myself to figure out "why" and well even if I did figure it out for myself (which may not be the true reason "why") in the end it still doesn't matter. Do what they are telling you. DB Work on yourself and move on, because that's what to focus on. If she ever figures things out for herself and she wants you to be in her life, you may want her in yours or you may be wanting to continue on a different path. Take one day at a time and Let Go Let God.
