"Primary parent" has not been established as of yet. I will be pursuing that diligently, as I do not want STBXW to be able to uproot and relocate Daughter.
Good move on YOUR part. I would not agree to her having “primary”. What I ended up doing is…..having NO primary residence designated AND if W moved outside of my d school that primary defaulted to me. Just an idea you may want to consider.
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I am not 100% sure how we will go about that, but I was just given notice that stbxw's lawyer decided to discontinue working with her as of this week.
I would have a list of things that YOU want. For example: 50/50, primary, etc. You should walk into this meeting with a very clear picture of what is NON negotiable and what is.
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with the exception of asking for 28K dollars, above and beyond everything else. That is something that I just am not willing to accept.
Just know what you are fighting for…..you could end up spending more than that on legal fees. I am not suggesting that you give it to her…IF you can get her to accept less it may be worth it.
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Loneliness is the number one thing I am struggling with now.
Loneliness can sometimes be a good thing too. It allows you to reflect and ALSO feel some of the things that you need to feel. Too much though can be a problem. It is all in the balance SP…all in the balance.
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I have begun to openly date.
Personally, I dated while I was getting divorced. I understand why I did; however, I would not recommend it. If you want to date…date yourself….fall in love with SP again. After my divorce and I was single for a while…It was the best time I had. I really enjoyed just “being”….no pressure…no r’s…just me and the kiddos. I loved that time. So just consider it dude…you really do not need to date to be happy and fulfilled.
Keep on focusing on you and your dreams dude.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
