It's too early to tell if it's helped Bunches. We've officially been under the same roof for a week and we haven't killed each other nor do I think we've taken steps backwards. So I guess that's at least not a bad sign.

Sure, there have been plenty of moments of tension, quite rooms, etc. I think we've both found that if we focus on the kids (while together), it relieves most of the tension. We both do a wonderful job of parenting. It's easily the strongest part of our marriage. So I guess for the time being we can just build from that.

Again, we're still technically seperated, seperate rooms, no touching at all (seriously, not even a touch on the shoulder). We have some joint family things coming up for Easter and I'm not certain we'll be doing those things together. More W's decision than mine but whatever. I'll pass on that because while it's important, it's not THAT important in the grand scheme of things.


Me: 33
W: 27
S: 5
D: 2
Bomb: 1/2/14
First Separation: 1/25/14
MC: 2/7/14 (one time only)
Moved Back in: 3/31/14
W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14
Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14